The Qur'an doesn't say you should hate your wife or anything but what it teaches is on marriage definitely different than what the Bible teaches. One other thing is that it even teaches contradictory things in its own pages regarding marriage. It even advocates polygamy up to 4 wives. The only qualifier is that you must be able to afford them. The Bible opposes this in Deuteronomy 17:17 - "Do not multiply wives". Any time polygamy is shown (never advocated) in the Bible, the ramifications are ALWAYS negative. Just look at Abraham, David, Solomon, Jacob, or the prophet Samuel's father.
Then there's Muhammad himself. He may have waited until his first wife died before he began to marry multiple wives but he still married way more than 4! If one counts concubines, it's even more. Aisha, reportedly his favorite, was very young (6? 9?). I've read some Islamic apologists who attempt to find ways to explain these activities, but at the end of the day Muhammad's marital activities stand in stark contrast to the Lord Jesus Christ, or even Peter or Paul, for that matter.
For the Nation of Islam folks, what about The Honorable Elijah Muhammad? His illegitimate sons and daughters are alive and well, walking around on this earth today. How can one disprove their existence? Even his legitimate son admitted his father's various "indiscretions". This creates a huge problem for his claims of legitimacy. Even King David, when faced with his infidelity, repented. Elijah Muhammad, however, either adamantly denied it or gave rationalizations, essentially saying he must fulfill various roles found in the Old Testament - read about it; it's all in black-and-white.
As far as Malcolm X goes, did he just make up these allegations? The Message of NOI was something he had followed with his whole being. He looked to Elijah as a prophetic figure. What would inspire him to create these accusations out of thin air? Where is his motivation? Not only that, but Malcolm seems to have been a man full of honesty and integrity. Regardless of what folks say about him, he was always faithful to his wife and a dedicated (albeit busy) family man. He himself showed no signs of sexual moral decay. He lived a life of strict moral discipline and was never known to be a man of lies. To accuse him of lying for selfish reasons is inconsistent with his known personal character.
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